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Question by BeatleGirl: Question about first time sex and was this wrong of me to do?

Hi everyone. Just wanted to ask a couple little questions about something that occurred two days ago. I am a twenty-year-old (in fact I am nine days shy of my twenty-first birthday, and when this occur ed when I was eleven days shy of it, you get the picture) and I lost my virginity two days ago. I am a junior in college, majoring in sociology and minoring in psychology. Anyway, there is this man who is an extremely close friend of mine whom I have known for almost three years and am "semi-dating" I suppose. Well two days ago I asked if he would like to come for a ride to the mall with me. He said okay and I picked him up at his home at 10:30 am, and we went out for breakfast, then drove to the mall. Keep in mind we had been intimate before. From kissing sessions to one brief encounter of me performing oral sex on him. Anyway, he was saying sexy things to me and I was getting aroused. I told him I wanted to shower with him (I will say this as tastefully as I can), he said okay and he rented a room right then in there. Once we were alone together in the room, we kissed, cuddled, and he whispered how much he liked me and wanted me. Then he put a condom on and we had sex. Keep in mind I was a virgin before this and there was no pressure from him to do so. He had suggested sex some times before and I had never felt ready till now...and he was always very kind about it. But it hurt sooo much loosing my virginity. I could feel my hymen tear, (he is also very well-endowed) and even though I could tell he was doing it as gently as he could, it still felt like a dagger was ripping into me. Then after fifteen minutes it was done, and he kissed and hugged me during the whole thing. When he took the condom off, it was covered in blood. I did not feel dirty, but I cried because I felt the "little girl" in me was now completely gone. But I was happy I lost it in a nice way, but now my belly hurts a little and there is still some pain in my privates, which I am worried about and I think it may be from the introduction of penetration to me. Then later that night I had to go help my grandma with her medicine while he went to his night class. I picked him up (his car is in the shop getting repaired) afterwards and there was no awkwardness whatsoever. We were talking, laughing, smiling, and seemingly enjoying each others company throughout the whole ride when I took him back home. I really care about this man and feel certain he really cares about me...and I trust him. But he has had a lot more sexual experience than me, so sometimes I feel inferior to him. Is this pain normal the first time you have sex for I read sometimes your hymen tearing can be like a light period up to a week, and I don't want to tell any of my friends about my first time for I want no gossip...and my older brother (who is twenty-eight) is soo protective of me and if he ever finds out this man (whom he also was a classmate of) deflowered me, I am so scared my brother would do something to hurt him. But will I be okay? Do you think I lost my virginity in a decent way? Thanks!
Plus the pain in my tummy is minor, but still wondering about it. Is it from the intro to penetration?




Best answer:

Answer by littlebunnyboop143
you'll be fine . you said his penis was big, so it was most likely to be more painful then somebody with like a 6 inch penis . you could've picked a better place to do it, but that was your choice . at least he was gentle .

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